My husband and I have been together for almost 2 years now. In the beginning, before we were married, he was very interested in sex and so attracted to me. Shortly after we were married he lost interest. We've had many problems since then. He doesn't enjoy sex very much now, and has told me so. His energy is low and he's irritable a lot. I try to be a good wife. I keep the house clean, along with working a full-time job - I do whatever I can to make him happy. But he's not very happy. My sex drive is a lot greater than his and it's driving me crazy. I've tried everything as far as being more spontaneous, initiating it. I guess I'm emotionally devastated that he doesn't want me in that way, like when we first met. What can I do to make things better in our marriage and make him want me more sexually?
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