I am 27 and married 2 years. Since the delivery of my daughter my wife has never wanted to have sex again. Once we tried but she said its painful and never wants to do it again. She refuses to go to a doctor. I want to have sex everyday but since my wife is not willing I have to masturbate along with watching porn. Beautiful women also set off my erection.
In my field of work I come across a lot of sexily dressed women and I can't avoid it. Unless my wife helps me I feel I may end up cheating some day. I feel its too early for me for abstinence. Everyday I want to have sex with almost every woman I come across.
Help me with suggestions because I even bought premarin for my wife which she does not even bother to use.
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