dear anne, i have been with my boyfriend for about a year and he introduced me to the swinger lifestyle, and i did it so he would like me, but i just cant take it anymore and everytime i tell him that i dont want to do it anymore he just tells me that it will be okay "i want to live a little before i get old, i'm not going to leave you" but he just doesnt understand how bad it hurts me to see him with some other girl, i feel like shit, like i'm boring and unattractive...how can i get through to him how bad it hurts me, i even told him that i tried to kill myself over it, yet he continues to try to find people to be with...please help me before its too late
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